“Dating to Marry”

So I was watching Sex in the City the other day. You know the part in the series where Charlotte gets divorced and consequently meets Harry who happens to be her divorce lawyer. Well they start dating and then in the season finale Charlotte tells Harry she is falling in love with him. Harry then…

The Pesky “Must Haves”

All of our lives we are told things about ourselves. Girls must be pretty, dainty, and not take up too much space. Boys must be tough, unemotional and successful. If you’re too fat you must work out. If your teeth are crooked you must get braces. If you’re not rich enough you must work harder….

Marriage (or something like it)

Maybe I’m crazy but I don’t want to get married. Like ever. Don’t get me wrong I fantasize about what I want my wedding dress to look like and where I want to get married. But when you really think about it I’m really fantasizing about a wedding, not a marriage. The thought of spending the rest of my…